Divorce Doesn’t Have to Be a War
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Free Guide
Mistakes to Avoid in Divorce, Custody & Co-Parenting
Get the legal clarity and emotional edge you need—before the paperwork, the panic, or the price tag hits.
Free Guide
Mistakes to Avoid in Divorce, Custody & Co-Parenting
Get the legal clarity and emotional edge you need—before the paperwork,
the panic, or the price tag hits.
—Julie Kelly
The Divorcee’s Best Friend
A Certified Paralegal with over 30 years in family law, a Certified Success Principles Coach, and most importantly, someone who’s lived through the very battle you’re facing now.
I spent 18 years in a high-conflict legal fight, raising two kids while navigating trauma, fear, and the overwhelming family court system. I know the emotional toll. I know the financial stress. And I know how hard it is to stay strong when everything feels uncertain.
That’s why I created Settle for More—to help you avoid the mistakes I made, find clarity in the chaos, and move forward with peace, confidence, and power. You don’t have to fight to win. You just need the right tools and someone who gets it.
Let’s settle for more—TOGETHER!
Feeling Overwhelmed
by Divorce, Custody, or Co-Parenting?
You’re Not Alone—And You’re Not Crazy.
We help people just like you—smart, capable, but stuck in a storm they didn’t ask for. Whether you’re in the early stages or deep in the fight, Settle for More gives you the clarity, support, and strategy to take your next step with confidence.
What You’re Dealing With
Legal Confusion
Lost in deadlines, documents, and legal jargon.
Emotional Burnout
Exhausted from the constant stress, fear, or resentment.
Financial Fear
Worried about making costly mistakes or draining savings.
Co-Parenting Conflict
Struggling to communicate or protect your children’s peace.
Feeling Alone
You don’t know who to trust or where to turn.
What We Help You Create
Legal Clarity
Know exactly what to prepare, do, and expect.
Emotional Strength
Shift your mindset and take back your power.
Financial Wisdom
Strategically protect your assets and peace of mind.
Co-Parenting Confidence
Clear boundaries + calm communication.
Real Support from Someone Who’s Been There
You’re not alone. We’ve lived this too—and we’re here to help.
The Guidance You Wish You Had Now Delivered Step by Step
This self-paced course helps you navigate divorce, custody, and co-parenting with more peace, less stress, and real legal clarity—no courtroom battles required. Created by Julie Kelly, a certified paralegal and mindset coach who’s lived it herself, Settle for More gives you the roadmap to protect your children, your finances, and your future.
Get Your Free Family Law Survival Checklist
Before the attorneys, before the court dates—get organized, feel grounded, and take back control. This free checklist helps you gather the right documents, protect your peace, and avoid the most common (and costly) mistakes in divorce, custody, and co-parenting.
Created by Julie Kelly—30+ year paralegal and survivor of an 18-year custody battle—it’s everything she wishes she had at the beginning.
Need Personal Guidance? Let’s Talk One-on-One.
If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step, a 1-on-1 Strategy Session with Julie offers clarity, direction, and peace of mind. Whether you need help organizing documents, preparing for custody, or dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, you'll get customized support from someone who’s been in your shoes—and knows the system inside and out.
Not ready to book a full session yet?
Start with a free 20-minute clarity call to ask questions and explore the right path forward—no pressure, just peace.
Life has a way of surprising us. One moment feels normal, and the next, we’re standing in chaos, wondering how everything unraveled. Divorce, custody battles, and the emotional turmoil they bring aren’t just legal issues—they’re deeply personal, life-altering challenges that test every ounce of strength we have.
I know this because I’ve seen countless men and women in that exact space—overwhelmed, uncertain, and searching for a way forward. That’s why Pathway to Peace is more than a book—it’s a lifeline.
Julie Kelly doesn’t just write about family law—she’s lived it. With decades of experience as a litigation paralegal and her own personal journey through the legal system, she brings unmatched wisdom, resilience, and compassion. Her story is not just one of survival, but of transformation—and now, she’s on a mission to guide others through the storm.
This book isn’t filled with legal jargon or distant advice. It’s full of clarity, compassion, and strategy. Julie masterfully breaks down overwhelming systems and replaces fear with knowledge, chaos with direction, and pain with purpose. Whether you’re in the thick of it or beginning a new chapter, this book is your roadmap to peace.
What I love most is Julie’s heart. She writes like she’s sitting across from you, reminding you that you’re not alone, that you are stronger than you think, and that there is a way through this. She doesn’t just give you tools—she gives you hope. And hope is everything.
If you’re holding this book, take a breath. You’ve already taken the first step toward peace. And with Julie as your guide, you won’t just survive—you’ll thrive.
—Patty Aubery
Life has a way of surprising us. One moment feels normal, and the next, we’re standing in chaos, wondering how everything unraveled. Divorce, custody battles, and the emotional turmoil they bring aren’t just legal issues—they’re deeply personal, life-altering challenges that test every ounce of strength we have.
I know this because I’ve seen countless men and women in that exact space—overwhelmed, uncertain, and searching for a way forward. That’s why Pathway to Peace is more than a book—it’s a lifeline.
Julie Kelly doesn’t just write about family law—she’s lived it. With decades of experience as a litigation paralegal and her own personal journey through the legal system, she brings unmatched wisdom, resilience, and compassion. Her story is not just one of survival, but of transformation—and now, she’s on a mission to guide others through the storm.
This book isn’t filled with legal jargon or distant advice. It’s full of clarity, compassion, and strategy. Julie masterfully breaks down overwhelming systems and replaces fear with knowledge, chaos with direction, and pain with purpose. Whether you’re in the thick of it or beginning a new chapter, this book is your roadmap to peace.
What I love most is Julie’s heart. She writes like she’s sitting across from you, reminding you that you’re not alone, that you are stronger than you think, and that there is a way through this. She doesn’t just give you tools—she gives you hope. And hope is everything.
If you’re holding this book, take a breath. You’ve already taken the first step toward peace. And with Julie as your guide, you won’t just survive—you’ll thrive.
—Patty Aubery
Julie, you have made a profound impact on my life—not only mine, but my daughter’s, and truly, our entire family. Your guidance, insight, and unwavering support through one of the most traumatic and emotionally draining battles of our lives helped shape me into the man I am today.
You have a remarkable gift for seeing through the smokescreen of pain and emotion, cutting through the chaos to reveal a path grounded in truth, strength, and long-term peace. You taught me that the greatest outcomes are reserved for those willing to endure the discomfort of the process, not just for themselves, but for the ones they love.
Through your coaching, I learned that emotional control is a powerful tool—that our actions should be thoughtful and intentional, not reactive. You helped me see that this battle was never just about one person; it was about protecting what matters most and rising above short-term emotions to secure long-term peace.
Without your guidance, I could not have made it through the emotional toll of the journey. But knowing I had you by my side meant I never had to worry. Even if things had turned out differently, I would never have blamed you—because your dedication, patience, and relentless pursuit of justice are unmatched. The only failure would have been in a system that overlooked your wisdom.
You are, and will always be, one of my greatest blessings. I am forever grateful for you and all that you have done for me and my family.
With love and deep respect,
A Forever Grateful Client
—J.K. Fields
Julie, you have made a profound impact on my life—not only mine, but my daughter’s, and truly, our entire family. Your guidance, insight, and unwavering support through one of the most traumatic and emotionally draining battles of our lives helped shape me into the man I am today.
You have a remarkable gift for seeing through the smokescreen of pain and emotion, cutting through the chaos to reveal a path grounded in truth, strength, and long-term peace. You taught me that the greatest outcomes are reserved for those willing to endure the discomfort of the process, not just for themselves, but for the ones they love.
Through your coaching, I learned that emotional control is a powerful tool—that our actions should be thoughtful and intentional, not reactive. You helped me see that this battle was never just about one person; it was about protecting what matters most and rising above short-term emotions to secure long-term peace.
Without your guidance, I could not have made it through the emotional toll of the journey. But knowing I had you by my side meant I never had to worry. Even if things had turned out differently, I would never have blamed you—because your dedication, patience, and relentless pursuit of justice are unmatched. The only failure would have been in a system that overlooked your wisdom.
You are, and will always be, one of my greatest blessings. I am forever grateful for you and all that you have done for me and my family.
With love and deep respect,
A Forever Grateful Client
—J.K. Fields
You’ve Got Questions?
We’ve Got Clarity.
Do I need to be in the middle of a divorce to work with Julie?
Not at all. Julie supports individuals at every stage—whether you're just thinking about separation, actively going through it, or navigating life after the papers are signed. It’s never too early (or too late) to get clear, calm, and prepared.
I already have a lawyer. Can Julie still help me?
Absolutely. Julie doesn’t replace your attorney—she complements them. She helps you understand the legal process, organize your documents, and stay emotionally grounded so your time with your lawyer is more efficient and less overwhelming.
My ex is high-conflict and communication is impossible. Can Julie still help?
Yes. Julie specializes in helping people co-parent through conflict. She’ll guide you on how to set boundaries, manage emotional triggers, and protect your children from the fallout—no matter how the other party behaves.
What if I can’t afford an attorney? Can Julie still help me represent myself?
Yes. Julie has worked with hundreds of self-represented individuals. She helps you prepare your documents, understand your rights, and create a plan—so you walk into every situation more confident and informed.
What makes working with Julie different?
Julie isn’t just a paralegal—she’s a certified Success Principles coach and a survivor of an 18-year custody battle. She brings legal strategy, personal experience, and mindset transformation together in a way that few others can. She gets it. She’s lived it. And she knows how to help you move forward with strength and peace.
I’m overwhelmed and not sure where to start. Can Julie help me figure that out?
Definitely. That’s what her free 30-minute clarity call is for. No pressure—just a conversation to explore where you are and what next step makes sense for you.
